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Whatever Happened to the Chase?
Once we are in a committed relationship, we as in both partners, somehow think it is okay to give up the chase of winning each other over. In today’s time, the chase is non-existent, in some cases, before the commitment is even reached. Whatever happened to flowers just because, surprise lunch dates, a card, or poetry for no other reason than to express what you mean to each other, sentimental gifts, or a compliment that uplifts your partner on their worse day. I miss that feeling of feeling like I am thought about. I miss that feeling of not taking things for granted and assuming I will always be around. Truthfully I will be,…
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Traveling with your spouse
Traveling with my husband is one of the things I really love about being in a relationship with someone I love. We have had our experiences good and bad traveling, but we always come out with a little more enjoyment and love for one another. Just recently we took a short vacation to Washington DC to tour the White House. Although we have traveled to this location before, it was like being there for the first time, because we were traveling without children. Those of you with children know what it is like to attend anything with young children, it’s all about them and their comfort and your ability to keep them behaving appropriately.…
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Can you love the unforgivable?
I use to think that in order to deepen your love for someone you must love unconditionally. My husband has brought to my attention that loving unconditionally is a bunch of bull. The example he uses is, if one day I just kick him in the face four times without reason, without apology, or without remorse he cannot continue to love me unconditionally. He will start to love me with conditions. You keep kicking me we are going to have a problem. There are conditions! Which only makes sense. Love is so many things, but it is not one that holds a grudge or a reminder of the things you have done…
