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Can you love the unforgivable?
I use to think that in order to deepen your love for someone you must love unconditionally. My husband has brought to my attention that loving unconditionally is a bunch of bull. The example he uses is, if one day I just kick him in the face four times without reason, without apology, or without remorse he cannot continue to love me unconditionally. He will start to love me with conditions. You keep kicking me we are going to have a problem. There are conditions! Which only makes sense. Love is so many things, but it is not one that holds a grudge or a reminder of the things you have done…
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Are you a victim of fake friend?
Have you ever been in a relationship where you know everything about your relationship feels right. I mean you and your partner love each other and it shows, you feel confident with this person, your self-esteem could be no higher. You both are in a position in your life where you are accomplished or both of you are striving for that high level end result. I mean you all are so into each other that, you kind of coordinate when going on dates or outings. I did that in high school, but hey nothings wrong with an adult couple who still feel the need to dress alike. Your secure in your relationship is…
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WTF
Personal story, but I had to share. So hubby and I are in the store and we are joking around and being flirtatious, as we sometimes do, and as I turn my head to look for a food item, this random woman winks and smiles at him. Hubby is so clueless sometimes he completely ignores the woman. So I as bluntly and sweet as I could, say, loud enough for “trying to hard” to hear, say, “Did you see ole girl over there flirting with you?” He looks over and laughs. “I’m serious.” I say “She just winked and smiled at you, and lets not forget the bend over so you can notice…
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5 Date Night Relationship Savers
Relationships are often challenged because of the amount of time available to be alone with each other is limited. Rekindle some of that romance by scheduling a date night once a week or twice a month. Skip anything that doesn’t force you to reconnect with each other. Dinner is always nice. Instead of having dinner at a restaurant how about a nice dinner at home. You can order in or pick up something from a favorite restaurant and eat by candle light. This gives you all a chance to catch up and share things with each other that sometimes is not possible with the daily hustle and bustle of life. Picnic at a…
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Oh she’s/he’s just a friend!
Have you ever been in a situation where you meet your spouses co-workers or people who are apart of their extracurricular team or organization, and there is this one person who breaks their neck to stand out? I peep those people when I meet my husbands “friends” who are of the opposite sex. They are trying so hard to meet you and share with you their relevance in your spouses life. Blah, Blah, Blah, go sit down somewhere! Ok don’t get me wrong I could be a bit bitter, but I know this type of friend. First off, they think you, the spouse don’t know that they exist, because their relationship with your spouse…
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5 ways to keep your marriage interesting
You have been married for a number of years and you are starting to feel like everything is routine. Some days you have to wonder did you even speak to your spouse about something other than did you pay that bill, what are we eating for dinner, or did you send the email to your child’s teacher. It is so easy to get wrapped up in the routine of life. Wake up, shower, brush your teeth, wash your face, get dressed, kiss your fa mily with those everyday sayings (love you or be safe), go to work, come home, cook dinner, prepare for tomorrow, and then go to bed. Wait did we…
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7 Ways to Get Over Cheating
Getting over cheating When a spouse cheats it is one of the most devastating acts of betrayal to get over. You being the victim always have the option to stay or go. Your first instinct may be to go, but once the anger has settled you try to understand the action and find a way to love again. There are three types of cheating, 1. Sexual cheating your spouse is having sex with another person or multiple people without your consent. 2. Emotional cheating Your spouse has developed a very intimate relationship with another person who he/she shares all the things he/she should share with you and spending all their free time with…
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Social Media killed my relationship
We all have our stories on how social media ruined our relationship. Some have positive endings and some just end. Frankie and I have had our fair share of disagreements on social media and how much time should be spent on these platforms, but we have found a happy middle and I believe that you can too. My personal story I must share a personal experience with social media and marriage. Years before Facebook or computers for that matter I experienced some infidelity with my spouse and we had been working hard at trying to trust again and find a friendship with each other. We knew we loved each other, but we wanted…
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